Children who are optimistic about life tend to find it easier to push through challenges and overcome obstacles to get something they want, but it’s an attitude that has to be learned. How positive your child is might depend somewhat on their personality, but there are things you can do to encourage them to adopt the right mindset. Read on for some tips from an independent school in the Cotswolds on how you can raise an optimistic child. 

Model positivity

The first place to start is with yourself. Make sure your child sees you approaching problems or challenging situations with optimism, rather than complaining about things or assuming the worst. They’ll learn a lot from watching how you interact with the world, and seeing you tackle life positively will rub off on them. It’s also worth taking the opportunity to get your child involved in identifying the silver linings or positive aspects of any given situation, so this becomes something they do habitually. 

Encourage new experiences

Push your child to step out of their comfort zone and try new things as much as possible. Being exposed to everything the world has to offer will show them that there is much to be positive about and thankful for. This also gets them into the habit of embracing things they’ve never encountered before, rather than shying away from them. 

Put things in perspective

It can be hard to remain positive when we’re continually exposed to worldwide tragedies on the news or social media, but it’s important to teach children about perspective. Explain that the news tends to focus on the bad stuff that’s happening, rather than the positive things which are actually much more common. If they don’t understand this, kids might think that the world is full of badness, when actually the opposite is true. 

Promote problem-solving skills

If your child feels able to tackle any problem that’s in front of them, they’ll approach the challenge much more optimistically. The best thing you can do to promote independent problem-solving is to let your child work things out on their own without jumping in to help them. They might get frustrated when trying to solve a math problem or build a model, but chances are they’ll eventually figure it out and feel proud of themselves for doing so independently. 

Being allowed to work things out for themselves and overcome obstacles autonomously, as well as keeping a sense of perspective, will boost your child’s confidence ahead of the future challenges they’ll face in life. 

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